Natalie ‘Nadya’ Suleman: A Mother’s Journey to Raise 14 Children
Natalie ‘Nadya’ Suleman, also known as “Octomom,” became a household name in 2009 when she gave birth to the world’s first surviving set of octuplets. But behind the media frenzy and fame, Suleman has been working tirelessly to provide for her family of 14.
Balancing the demands of raising six children born before the octuplets with a full-time college schedule, Suleman faced criticism for being labeled as an “unemployed welfare recipient.” However, she clarifies that this was not the case at all, and she was determined to create a better life for her children.
Learning from her past mistakes, Suleman admits that she feels she “failed” her older children by being too permissive in her parenting approach. Reflecting on her college education, she realizes that consistent structure, discipline, and consequences are essential for raising well-rounded individuals. Despite her regrets, she raised her older children to be kind and humble.
With the octuplets, Suleman implemented strict rules and boundaries, combining unconditional love with structured discipline. For example, she has set a rule that they cannot date until they reach the age of 18. Suleman’s strict parenting style is aimed at instilling values of respect and responsibility in her children.
In the age of social media, Suleman has taken a different approach. In her household, there is no social media allowed. She believes that social media is toxic and unhealthy, especially for young minds. Suleman believes that focusing on others and valuing service over self-absorption leads to internal joy and happiness in her children.
Living in a three-bedroom apartment in Southern California, Suleman and her 11 children have made conscious choices to save money. They follow an ethical vegan lifestyle, not only for health reasons but also to minimize harm to animals and the planet. Their home is filled with family activities such as game nights and movie nights, creating a sense of togetherness.
As her children grow older, they eagerly anticipate important milestones. Some are excited about learning to drive, while others are eager to start working to contribute to the family’s financial responsibilities. Suleman values the thoughtfulness and love expressed by her children through heartfelt letters rather than material gifts.
The journey of Natalie ‘Nadya’ Suleman and her 14 children is a testament to the resilience and determination of a mother to provide the best life possible for her family. The Lifetime documentary, “Confessions of Octomom,” provides an intimate look into her life and the challenges she has faced.
