School district defends decision to ban parents who wore ‘XX’ wristbands at daughters’ game with trans athlete

School District Stands Firm on Decision to Bar Parents Wearing “XX” Wristbands at Soccer Game

In a controversial move that sparked a federal lawsuit, a school district in Bow, New Hampshire, has defended its decision to prohibit parents from wearing “XX” wristbands during a high school soccer game. The incident occurred back in September when Anthony Foote, along with his wife Nicole and two other parents, wore armbands in support of biological girls-only sports to his daughter’s game.

The Silent Protest: Standing in Solidarity

The parents’ action, which they called a “silent protest,” aimed to show solidarity with the Bow team and voice their opposition to a policy that allowed a transgender girl to play on Plymouth’s team. However, the school district claimed that the protest went beyond mere wristbands and accused the parents of harassing the transgender player.

Allegations of Harassment and Threats

Superintendent Marcy Kelley and Athletic Director Mike Desilets received strongly worded emails from Anthony Foote, in which he referred to himself as a “real leader” and expressed his readiness to take action. Moreover, Foote encouraged others to attend the game through social media. Concerns were also raised when another parent reported overhearing conversations about showing up to the game wearing dresses and heckling the transgender player.

Preemptive Action: Ensuring Safety

In response to the potential threats, Superintendent Kelley emphasized the importance of taking preemptive action when there is suspicion of a threat. She justified the district’s decision to bar the parents from the game by stating that allowing harassment would make them liable.

Organized and Targeted Protest

Superintendent Kelley dismissed the parents’ claims that they were expressing support for their daughters and teammates in general. She argued that the timing of the protest, specifically choosing the game involving a transgender player, indicated that it was organized and targeted.

Transgender Athlete Challenging State Law

The transgender player at the center of the controversy, Parker Tirrell, along with another student athlete, is challenging a state law that prohibits transgender athletes in grades 5 to 12 from playing on teams that align with their gender identity. Despite the ongoing lawsuit, a federal judge has ruled that they can continue to participate in sports.

Governor Supports Fairness and Safety in Women’s Sports

The Fairness in Women’s Sports Act, signed into law by Governor Chris Sununu in July, aims to maintain fairness, safety, and competitive balance in women’s sports. The governor has expressed his belief that the law ensures integrity and fairness in athletic competitions.

Conclusion

The school district’s decision to bar parents from wearing “XX” wristbands at the soccer game has sparked controversy and resulted in a federal lawsuit. While the parents claim their action was a silent protest in support of girls-only sports, the district argues it was targeted harassment. The case highlights the ongoing debate surrounding transgender athletes’ participation in sports and the efforts to ensure fairness and safety for all participants.